Introducing The Midst: The gateway drug to the modern midlife experience

At long last, the foundational platform for empowering women in their 40s and into their 50s

Amy Cuevas Schroeder
5 min readJan 23, 2024

Middle age is nothing new. Technically, it’s been around since humans have been alive, but how we do and view midlife — and how long it lasts — has changed quite a bit in recent times.

Turning 40 circa the 1980s. (We found this on pattycakesbakery.)
Turning 50 in the 2020s: Jennifer Lopez in 2019. From People: “‘Everybody thought I was crazy when I wanted to let everybody know I was 50. …’Why are we highlighting this, again?’” she said people would ask her. “For me, it was important as a woman to do that; to let people know that you don’t get to write women off at a certain point in their life.”

Depending on how you define midlife, you could argue that it’s now the lengthiest period of life. By comparison, childhood, adolescence, and the 20s are just blips in the grand scheme of things.

Now that women are living longer than ever (the average American woman will live to 81 and many people now strive for 100+) — middle age is full of potential and possibilities. Your 40s and 50s are prime time to ditch whatever’s holding you back, put your wisdom to good use, prioritize whatever your version of happy is, try something new, make a bucket list or fuckit list, and quit the habits that were passable in our younger years but wreak havoc now.

Move over, midlife crisis. Try midlife reawakening or recovery.

Midlife is also perhaps among the most demanding periods for adults. Marriage, divorce, fertility treatments, raising kids, empty nesting, hormonal shifts, career changes, going back to school, starting over, health changes, caring for elders. You can experience all or none of the above in your middle years.

Depending on how you define midlife, you could argue that it’s now the lengthiest period of life. By comparison, childhood, adolescence, and the 20s are just blips in the grand scheme of things.

Now that women are living longer than ever (the average American woman will live to 81 and many people now strive for 100+) — middle age is full of potential and possibilities. Your 40s and 50s are prime time to ditch whatever’s holding you back, put your wisdom to good use, prioritize whatever your version of happy is, try something new, make a bucket list or fuckit list, and quit the habits that were passable in our younger years but wreak havoc now.

Move over, midlife crisis. Try midlife reawakening or recovery.

Midlife is also perhaps among the most demanding periods for adults. Marriage, divorce, fertility treatments, raising kids, empty nesting, hormonal shifts, career changes, going back to school, starting over, health changes, caring for elders. You can experience all or none of the above in your middle years.

You do you.

That’s the point of The Midst. We’re on a mission to empower women in their 40s and 50s to design life on their terms, to reimagine this period as a time of growth, exploration, and possibility. We’re a collective of journalists, entrepreneurs, health activists and experts, nutritionists, and creative midlifers covering hormone health, women’s health, and mental wellness alongside stories about beauty, relationships, careers, and the women leading, defining, and ushering in the new and future versions of the second half.

Margaret Cho likens midlife to “a gateway drug to clarity and confidence.” Read our interview here. (photo by Sergio-Garcia)

What is The Midst and how do you get involved?

The Midst is the gateway drug to the modern midlife experience (thanks, Margaret Cho, for the inspo). OK, we’re not a drug — that’s just our tagline. We’re an independent media company, a community, and a platform for change and information.

As our managing editor, Gretchen Kalwinski says, one of our goals is to “normalize the conversation about the midlife experience and encourage women to take deep care of themselves, inside and out. In a society where that’s not only de-emphasized but frowned on — where, from birth, women are encouraged to give themselves up for others and then in midlife to shut up and shrink away — I find The Midst to be REVOLUTIONARY.”

What’s next for The Midst?

Content is just the beginning. We’re currently bootstrapped and debt-free (go lean startups!). We’ve got a women’s health-tech concept up our sleeve and plan to raise capital to help us build it.

If we had to describe being in The Midst in a nutshell …

Now that I’m a wise 47, I challenged myself to summarize what being in The Midst means in a few words. The following four “summary statements” represent a mix of my own experience and those of friends, women we’ve interviewed, and our readers.

How do you describe your #midstlife?

Do any of these descriptions resonate with you? Maybe a mix and match? None of the below? Vote for option 1, 2, 3, or 4, or use your own words to describe your #midstlife in comments or on our Instagram and LinkedIn.

This article was originally published here on the-midst.com.

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Amy Cuevas Schroeder

Founder & CEO of The Midst: The gateway drug to the modern midlife experience. Bylines in Etsy, Minted, Pitchfork. https://the-midst.com/