Screw over the hill. Women’s brains get upgraded after menopause

Neuropsychiatrist Louann Brizendine: “When you pass through the door to The Upgrade, your ability to see your most positive and authentic self is no longer clouded.”

Have you seen Courtney Cox’s spoof on her 1985 Tampax ad? Now 59, she says, “Menopause will eat you alive! … Plus, you get the added bonus of drier skin and bald patches.”

Jokes aside, Cox makes a valid point: Menopause can be f-ing hard. But there’s also a bright side, says Dr. Louann Brizendine, MD, in her book, The Upgrade: How the Female Brain Gets Stronger and Better in Midlife and Beyond. Now that I’m several years into my perimenopause experience, I more than welcome the benefits and upsides of entering our second phase of life.

“The Upgrade” is Dr. Brizendine’s new term for menopause — one that’s about the path to becoming your best deep self. “Maybe it’s a bit grandiose, but if not now, when?” The Upgrade delves into doubts and misinformation about aging in order to help women find our own answers and solve conflicts about how emotions, hormones, biology, and the brain work together.