What Should We Call Middle-Age Women — Older, Midlifer, 40+?

Pro-aging thought leaders nominate the best language to describe people in midlife

Amy Cuevas Schroeder
4 min readJun 14, 2022
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In the last several years, our culture has seen a rise in blogs, influencers, businesses, communities, and organizations welcoming and celebrating women in their middle years.

Still, as two women leading entities in this environment, we’re grappling with how to talk about women older than 40 in language that feels empowering. So much of the language out there seems to carry negative undercurrents (seasoned, mature, old?) or boxes the world of the 40+ woman into an age bracket, which may or may not have anything to do with the life stage she’s actually living. After all, this woman could be a CEO or retired, a mom or grandmother, changing careers or moving to a new country.

Are we, as a society, reaching a moment when women are more confident about saying we are “over 40, hear me roar”? Does the number even matter?

We set out to get to the bottom of this by asking fellow industry leaders to answer this question: What should we call middle-age women? Here are recommendations from Omisade Burney-Scott of Black Girl’s Guide to Surviving Menopause, Stephanie O’Dell of Celebrate The Gray, Natalie Waltz of Tabu, and Susan Douglas, a…

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Amy Cuevas Schroeder

Founder & CEO of The Midst: The gateway drug to the modern midlife experience. Bylines in Etsy, Minted, Pitchfork. https://the-midst.com/